Родители и взрослые дети. Как разрешить конфликты и восстановить отношения - Джошуа Коулман 8 стр.


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Рита Руднер современная американская писательница-юмористка.

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William Jeynes, A Longitudinal Analysis on the Effects of Remarriage Following Divorce on the Academic Achievement of Adolescents, Journal of Divorce & Remarriage 33, nos. 1 and 2 (2000): 131148.

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Conti, Family Estrangement.

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When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Dont Get Along (New York: HarperCollins, 2007).

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Joshua Coleman, Philip Cowan, and Carolyn Pape Cowan, The Cost of Blaming Parents, Greater Good magazine, Berkeley, California, 2014; Kristina M. Scharp, Lindsey J. Thomas, and Christina G. Paxman, It Was the Straw That Broke the Camels Back: Exploring the Distancing Processes Communicatively Constructed in Parent-Child Estrangement Backstories, Journal of Family Communication 15, no. 4 (2015): 33048.

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Debra Umberson, Relationships Between Adult Children and Their Parents: Psychological Consequences for Both Generations, Journal of Marriage and Family 54 (1992): 66474.

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Anne-Marie Slaughter, Why Women Still Cant Have It All, https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/07/why-women-still-cant-have-it-all /309020/; Joshua Coleman, The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework (New York: St. Martins Press, 2007).

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Selma Fraiberg et al., Ghosts in the Nursery, Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry 14, no. 3 (Summer 1975): 387421.

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Philip Cowan, при личном общении. См. также: Joshua Coleman, Philip Cowan, and Carolyn Pape Cowan, The Cost of Blaming Parents, Greater Good magazine, Berkeley, California, 2014.

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Russell Banks, Affliction (New York: HarperPerennial, 2004).

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Перевод на русский язык книги «Ученица» вышел в издательстве «Бомбора» в 2018 г.

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Tara Westover, Educated: A Memoir (New York: Random House, 2018).

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Исследователи Люси Блейк и Бекка Бланд обнаружили, что большинство отчуждений было инициировано взрослым ребенком, а не его родителем. Lucy Blake and Becca Bland, University of Cambridge Centre for Family Research and Stand Alone, December 2015. Их выводы отражают результаты моей практики и проведенного мною опроса 1600 отчужденных родителей.

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Joshua Coleman, The Marriage Makeover: Finding Happiness in Imperfect Harmony (New York: St. Martins Press, 2000); Pamela Webster and A. Regula Herzog, Effects of Parental Divorce and Memories of Family Problems on Relationships Between Adult Children and Their Parents, The Journals of Gerontology Series B, vol. 50B, no. 1 (January 1995): S24S34.

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