My host lives in Colaba the citys main touristic region, packed with all kinds of monuments from the times of British colonization. Back then, in the previous century, Colaba took the role of the India Gateway. At the times, Mumbai was known as Bombay, never mind it being the capital. Nowadays, you can only find here crowds of tourists, luxurious taxis and Indian weirdos who offer to take your picture for a hundred rupees.
[Meeting in the kitchen, Mohammeds direct speech]
The first night is free, the rest are two thousand rupees each.
You want breakfast, dinner? Two hundred rupees
You want to go to a cave? Lets organize an excursion, seven thousand rupees. You dont have so much money? And how much do you have?
Local slums are must see, only in a local excursion, theyll show you how our people live.
A dozen guys are hanging out in the apartment. They all need a thing or two from me.
[an old man]: Buy me cigarettes, will you?
[Me]: No way.
[the old man, smirking]: Listen to me I said: buy me cigarettes!
I give money to the youngest of those jackals. Half an hour later he comes back with the cigarettes, but no change. Eventually, the old man gets the change from the young jackal as he sees the real price on the pack. A complete shakedown at the every corner.
I spend the night curling up on a small bench near the front door while other inhabitants of the moral brothel sleep on the floor. I wonder if they charge me for taking the bench?
First thing in the morning, I rush outside and engage searching of a new host. I send an SOS message to a random guy in coach. He calls me straight away.
[Natan, a new host]: Are you ok there?
[Me]: I guess, they let me be, but Ill really need a new couch tomorrow.
[Natan]: Sure, come by.
[Me]: Thanks, Natan, youre a real friend.
Although the hosts name is Mohammed, I think I would name him Douchebag.
Bollywood
[Me]: Natan, I lost my phone in Borivali. Im in police department now.
It all happened at the final Borivali station, which leads to the natural park with ancient caves. One of the local wizards snitches my phone out of my backpack rear pocket. Cops suggest I stop bothering them and go back to Russia. Having no connection, I make my way to Natan thanks to a cheap tablet left in my backpack and occasional Wi-Fi hotspots.
Meeting with Natan and his neighbor Prakash makes me completely forget about my phone and plunge into the festive Diwali atmosphere. Lots of dazzling lights are hanging everywhere. Lots of street food load my stomach. We move from one stall to another; the guys treat me with all sorts of spices and sweets. Natan and Prakash work in Bollywood they organize extras. They look like western hipsters: barbershop beards, Balenciaga clothes. They like cricket and their friends. Basically, they live a normal millennial life yuppie I would say.
So many thousands of kilometers between us, so many cultural and language barriers, so much different in our lives. Still, we treat each other like bros. We speak as if we're not strangers but friends with traditional Friday get-togethers.
Next morning, I make a video with congratulations to their friends. I do it in Hindi, repeating every sound they pronounce.
I think that turned out like a typical Slav story: where cops are jerks, have faith in your bros.
Chiraq
Hello, how are you? I have a good apartment. I live alone at the moment. Im looking forward to having a great time together :) Good luck!
My hosts name in Pune is Chiraq, but hes concealing himself under Enoch on the Internet because hes afraid of jokes about Iraq. Hes working in his fathers construction business and lives in a new building double. The guy hospitably lets me sleep on his bed while he takes the floor. Another wow from me.
In the morning, I see my next train to Bangalore canceled. My travel route is collapsing like a card house. I look at the map of India in Google Maps with confusion and realize only a single night bus separates me from paradise Goa beaches. Having arrived to the station while listening to Indian school students talking to each other, I buy a ticket to Goa for the evening. Enough of urbanistic India chaos for me no mote attention at every step, time to relax.
Chiraq adjusts to my plans fairly quickly. We pick up stuff at home and ride to the center on a scooter. After dinner, we ascend the city park hill and see a chapel. The chapel undergoes some sort of religious ritual with a furious bell chime.
[Chiraq]: Goa is a great place. What if I join you for a day, so we hang out together at your host's? Pick up some girls, smoke some weed.
[Me]: Sounds great, but I doubt hed like someone to decide for him what to do with his house.
[Chiraq]: Well, thats unfortunate. It was nice to meet you, brother.
[Me]: Me too.
In short, Pune is a boring place unless you have a comrade like Chiraq.
Shoes
My new Goa host's name is Cross. We agreed to meet in front of Siolim Church. He seems to be a religious person.
Cross is from Nigeria. He moved to Goa two years ago. He looks like 50 Cent: the face, the smile, the way he laughs, the muscles, the cross on the neck, the gangster appearance. He lives with his girlfriend from South of India and shares the house with another couple from Nigeria as well. They introduce me to an old, dirty, worn-down mattress in the living room, but outside the window its all still and quiet, no noisy cities or constant attention.
[Me]: What do you do?
[Cross, smiling]: I sell shoes.
[Me]: [Pretending to believe]
Thats how my day in Goa looks. In the morning, Cross gives me a ride to the closest beach on the coastline he doesnt allow me to use scooters, as hes concerned about my safety. His girlfriend had her leg plastered a month ago because of a car crash, not to mention my young oaf lack of driving skills. Having arrived to the coastline, I take a walk along the line with occasional breaks on swimming in the sea. By dawn, I come to Arambol the busiest place of the coastline where Im meeting Cross.
Cross spends the evening sitting with his friends at the table and selling Christian substances to tourists. Every Arambol resident knows where to look for him and what for. Nigerians are holding equal distance along the beach with hands in their pockets.
In Goa, I enjoy my lonely shiny days in India without India. In the evening, I meet interesting characters who come to Goa for downshifting and yoga courses. Generally, they all come from Northern and Western Europe being tired from trivial boring life with how-to instructions. Among the first-world crowds seeking spiritual experience, you can also notice a warm-loving Muscovites11.
In Goa, I met Lesha and Lena from the Chygoo story. India shocked them so bad, as if they knew about India even less than I did. Puzzled by the complexity of Delhi, Lesha and Lena headed north to Rishikesh, where you can buy tour packages with yoga and self-awareness. Having got disappointed with the local spirituality, they departed to Goa for a winter much less chilly than in Petersburg. Comparison of their experience in South-Eastern Asia and here does India, no good favor. They are freaked out by the unsanitary conditions, chaos and the way locals bother white people.
My last night in Goa. Arambol, café. Im hurrying Cross as I need to pack my clothes and be on time in the Airport. On the way home we stop at some guesthouse where Cross had some friend, or client, or both. Cross gets nervous and interrogates local dwellers.
Little by little he summons a dozen of angry Hindus. It seems that theyre going to beat the shit out of us. On my right an old wrinkled man is shaking a stick. After ten minutes of verbal confrontation, we break through the living line with a ram attack and embrace freedom.
Twenty minutes afterwards, we come by a guy named Jimmy in a place looking like a jungle. Covered by an empty darkness, Cross divides the pill into two parts in order to sell Jimmy the right dosage. I don't know what to do: whether to look over for the cops or just keep silence. Most likely, the second. I stop thinking about some cops nailing us and putting me into Indian jail. All I want is to get on the fucking plane on time.
Finally, we get home. I quickly pack my backpack, say goodbye to Cross and take a taxi to the airport. I made it on time, but the plane is delayed. It triggers a chain reaction where I miss all four flights I planned. I change the time of the second flight to restore the chain. I pay in excess with all spare cash I have. I arrive to Bishkek, wait for a Moscow flight the whole night, feel sick and tired on all fronts: physically, emotionally and mentally.
I think thats the case when you need a vacation after you had a vacation.
Motherland
Angels
I have a childhood friend in Petersburg who could host me for a few days, but not a single soul in Moscow. Though its fairly easy to find a host in Moscow since there are lots of them, its all different during May holidays. People move to country houses, visit parents and set off on trips. So, my searching led me to expat Jose. He doesnt have a country house; his parents are far away. Traveling is the core element of his life.
Jose is from Ecuador. He is thirty years old, skinny, intellectual, cosmopolitan; speaks somewhere between six and eight languages including his brilliant Russian. He moved to Russia for work in a biomedical company. He lives in Lyublino District and shares a three-room apartment in a human hive with guys from Saratov. Couch helps him abstract from russkiy bydlo12 and make a personal Pokémon collection out of interesting people.
Even before an eye-to-eye meeting, we have a misunderstanding:
[Me]: Good morning, Jose. Im looking forward to meeting you tomorrow at the train station. I have your phone number, so everything is ok. Could you give me your address just in case?
[Jose]: Im not meeting you at the train station, God dammit!!! I can meet you right away at the exit from the tube station! You can take the metro to Lyublino. I would recommend you to call me when you arrive to the city, so I would have time to prepare. I dont find it necessary to meet you at the airport or train station, as I doubt its your first visit to Moscow Besides, you can speak Russian, so it shouldnt be difficult for you to navigate in the city. Thus, you can ask, listen to and read without trouble.
[Me]: I believe its just a misunderstanding. Sure, I meant metro. See you tomorrow!
We chit-chat in the kitchen about some abstract stuff: cars parked on lawns, environment, technologies, countries and cultures. After our conversation, I start to explore Moscow, looking forward to seeing the match between my favorite team Lokomotiv and not-so-favorite Spartak. Lokomotiv would get aced, and we would get detained on the stadium for a good one and a half hours after the match ends. Thank you, Jose, for opening the door at 11 p.m..
After my trip, we chat on Facebook for some time.
[Jose]: Too many holidays. That doesnt suit the country with economic decline.
[Me]: Its not about New Year holidays. Its not caused by lavatories, but its something that starts in peoples heads13.
[Jose, transliterated]: Problema V to 4isle i v golovax NARODA, ne tolko v golovax pravitelei. I etot moment, tot kotory 4itateli tvoego roda, naprimer, o4en vugodno propuskaiut, kogda tsitiruiut Bulgakova. Vsegda dumaiut 4to vina vsiu nado nalozhit na pravitelei, u kotoryx BEZ SONMENIA est bolshaya dolya otvestvennosti. NO na samogo sebya Trudno smotret'. Budto Russky narod takie angelo4ki. Samy takie lentiai i lenivye14
I think Jose is one heck of a toxic guy.
Sky
I meet Nadya at the Teatralnaya metro station. On the way home, we try to get to know each other better, but the unbearable metro noise puts in its two cents. Nadya tells me about the meeting with her friends they've just seen each other. Im playing my card straight away by telling about my life in the States.
Nadya lives with her husband Dima and a dog named Sky a reference to Luke Skywalker from the Star Wars. They work all round about film industry, usually as camera operators. Also, Nadya earns money from photoshoots and wedding photography. They live on mortgage in a new built three-room apartment in a residential complex near Podolsk. Because of urbanization metastases, their Podolsk propiska transformed into Moscow propiska15. I spend three nights in their apartment, they provide me with a free room loaded with different stuff. Two years afterwards Nadya would give birth to a boy and this room would become the children's room.
Next day I spend walking between museums and pretend to be a minor to get free tickets. I come back in the evening happy and tired. Nadya is cooking frounchosa, some kind of Moscow delicacy Ive never heard of. Were having dinner with her friend who came a couple of hours ago. Sky runs into the room. Nadya hugs him. I manage to take a picture with my Nikon D3200.
[Nadya]: Misha, where did you have lunch today?
[Me]: In Burger King.
[Nadya]: Im sorry.
During our last evening together, we walk around Kolomenskoye. They tell me about their wedding here, show photos on the phone. We are fooling around with my camera and make some nice photos. Their speech is full of historical facts about Moscow and its overall charms. The guys belong to the sort of people who are mad in love with the capital. Our conversation flows into political history direction: there we find ourselves on the opposite sides of the barricades, though mutual respect and common sense help us keep the conversation cool.
I think Moscow and Muscovites seem to be very delightful.
GROMYKA
At the weekend, I go to Moscow to see Rammstein live. Jose is busy moving to a new apartment, Nadya and Dima dont host anymore. I go for the third round of looking for a friendly soul with a couch in the capital.
Yeah, feel free to come over. Ul. Vvedenskogo, 11-2. 89061328907. Call me a couple of days in advance.
Having arrived at Belyayevo metro station, Im waiting for Yan and Julia in a sub. They should be picking me up in a minute after their visit to parents. Yan doesnt pick up the phone. Im trembling from anxiety and cold in the subway. Its raining cats and dogs today in Moscow, and not a single umbrella in the world would save you from it. After an hour of waiting, we find each other. On the way home, we share a single umbrella between three of us.
Yan and Julia young family from Makhachkala. Yan has a creative job in a public agency, Julia works in catering service and air travel. They have a three years old daughter. She spends this weekend at grandmother. Julia is pregnant with the second baby. Once again, CouchSurfing blows my mind with the people who are ready to support others, think out of the box, act and help. Guys, you have a little daughter, never mind pregnancy why would even host some guy from Penza? Perhaps, guys wish an interesting life with little routine, too.