Tenderness is associated with affection, a desire to take in arms and to hide from adversity. Children are taken in hands. They carry beloved in hands. The feeling of tenderness is experienced a small child when he puts to bed with him a favourite teddy bear for the night, embraces him, strokes and gently covers the blanket so that he would not froze.
The symbol of the heroic desire to save, hide and protect is a monument to a warrior with a saved child in his arms, installed in the Berlin Treptow Park.
Why does the Hero protect the weak, save them, help them in trouble? Because the Hero is pitiful to weak.
Tenderness is called a sweet feeling or a feeling of affection. Gently beloved call darlings. Have mercy, pity, host a favour thats what they say when they turn to this part of the humans soul. With a pity give alms.
The feeling of pity generates such quality of soul as mercy. Sisters of Mercy were called nurses in the World War I. Sisters of mercy were treating to wounded with a pity.
ENERGY OF LIFE
The souls of men and women, as well as the souls of all other animate creatures, are arranged identically. There are no exclusively male or exclusively female feelings; there are no exclusively male or exclusively female roles. There are also women with a heroic character. Such woman will stop the horse at a gallop, enter the burning log hut.
The woman with fire in a soul was sung by V. Vysotsky in one of the songs of a climbing cycle:
I asked you Why are you going up the hill?
And you were going to the top, and you were spoiling for a fight.
Elbrus is seen great from the plane
You sniggered and took with you.
Since you became close and affectionate
In the characteristic of the heroine of a song specified the qualities of soul connected with a heroic dominant of character: inspiration, tenderness, affectionateness and also charisma ability to lead (words are turned to her: I tried to keep step with you from the last force).
Women with a heroic dominant character are called fatal women. Because of them they lose their heads, go crazy with passion, they get carried away, they are jealous, because of them they shoot at duelling, commit suicide, let down the fortunes, rob banks, raise riots, overthrow governments and make revolutions. Meet the fatal woman to lose half life. Will shake up all soul.
Considering portraits and photographs of famous femme fatale women, studying the certificates of their contemporaries, it can be noticed that most of them did not differ in external beauty. Fatal femme women are attracted not by external beauty, but by an inner fire.
The bodys energy system is responsible for sexuality and sexual ability. It is not for nothing that the chakra svadhisthana (the center of the bodys energy system) is called the sexual chakra. People with a heroic character are different in the irrepressible tendency to sex. Women with a developed energy system, sometimes even at a distance, have an ardour emanating from the svadhisthana chakra. It is not by accident the womb where women are bearing children, is located near this chakra. They say about such women that they become pregnant from the first kiss.
Generally speaking, behind the word love can be hidden different feelings. Therefore, usually to the word love add a certain epithet specify the hue, type, kind of love. People with a heroic character are characterized by fervent love and tender love. It not for nothing to say about the Hero-lover: He is passionate and gentle cause an ardour, passion and tenderness are connected with the same role of the Hero.
But, it is known, the Hero-lover he is not only passionate and gentle, but also light-headed. Laura from the Stone Guest not for nothing called Don Guang my light-headed lover. The object of passion and tender feelings the Hero often changes. One and the same object of love quickly becomes boring for the Hero, it becomes boring, and people with a heroic dominant character do not tolerate boredom. The boredom drives them away. That is why their love is changeable.
People with a heroic character sometimes meet so-called Casanova complex. They need to achieve the desired goal associated with danger and risk. Without the passion of sex, they are bored after all, they need a storm of passion, a flurry of feelings.
Everyone knows the feelings associated with the role of the Hero: an inspiration, boredom and tenderness. Each person has a heroic beginning. Another thing that is one people have a lot of this heroic beginning but other people not enough.
With age the power of the body becomes weak, the heroic beginning decreases, feelings are cool down. They usually say about the person who has lost before an ardour of the soul:
But early feelings has cool down
(Eugene Onegin)
The heroic beginning is called the energy of life. They say about people whose character lacks heroic qualities:
There is no life in them, all dolls are waxen
(Stone Guest).
From boredom and from such waxen dolls Pushkins Don Guang has run away to Madrid.
When Lev Nikolaevich Gumiliov defended the dissertation according to the passionate theory of ethnogenesis, one of the members of dissertation council asked him: Can you explain on fingers who are passionarians? Understand! Not all people are grabbers, replied Gumiliov. This is true. Not all people are grabbers. There are also Heroes-passionaries. But there are grabbers too. It will be discussed about grabbers in the next paragraph.
§3. GRABBER
GRABBERS SOUL
There are people who are called grabbers.
Grabbers possess an increased susceptibility of the nervous system and a rapid reaction. The grabbers have increased skin sensitivity, perhaps, is due to the fact that many nerve endings come to the surface of the skin.
Grabbers role, three feelings are connected: greed (avarice), distrust (suspicion) and anxiety (concern, frustration).
GREED
The feeling of greed, avarice, lust, associated with the grabbers role, generates the desire to possess the object of lust. Greed and avarice are constantly encouraging grabber to use his chance, not to miss the prey, to have time to grab, to get ahead of others, to jerk to himself in time. That is why grabbers are called grabbers and graspers. They have a very developed grasping reflex.
The grabber is a lover of freebie and easy profit. Selfish greed, the desire to grab on the cheap generates a rush demand, when they throw out a scarce commodity. When to the hungry throw or the fight-dog the object of their lust, they, fuelled with greed, arrange among themselves selfish bickering.
Greed is the source of envy: another grabbed, he got it, but I did not! enviable. They say about grabbers: Greedy folk have long arms.
The grabber he is not only a grasper and a grabber, but he is also still cormorant and cheapskate, he is a miser and a chuff. grabbers do not like the word to buy very much, because to buy means to give money. They prefer the word to obtain, that is, to make a raise, to take, to find, to get a gift, to steal, and only in the most extreme case, after bargaining, to buy.
If the grabber buys something, then only on the cheap. He will not pay an extra kopeck. Before buying something, the grabber will always find the lowest price. He always knows what, where and how much. This can be seen in Judas. This is what the Gospel of John says:
Mariia, taking a pound of backgammon pure precious world, has spread Jesus legs and wiped His legs with her hair; and the house filled with the fragrance of the world.
Then one of His disciples, Judas Simonov Iscariot,
who wanted to betray him, said:
Why not sell this chrism for three hundred denarius
because there was a thief
He had a cash drawer with him and wore that they lowered there.
(John 12: 36)
Judas who as a result has sold Jesus for 30 silver coins was a treasurer in the company of Jesus and his apostles: he had a cash drawer with him and wore that they lowered there. The thirst for money is a very selfish tendency of nature.
The grabber thief. He is an evident thief or a thief in the depths of his soul. The grabber all self clings to his hands. If giddy-person always loses everything, then grabber, on the contrary, as if gathers by itself.
The grabber hoarder. He drags to the house everything that will get, everything that badly lies. His house is filled with unused junk. When moving to another house the grabber gets boxes with junk. There is only one way to make grabber get rid of junk to persuade to sell. But he wont sell cheap.
An example of a selfish woman a Box from Gogols Dead Souls, which thought, how not to undersell, she wanted to sell more expensive dead souls. Another example of a selfish character a squirrel from the cartoon Ice Age.
The notion of property the notion of the eternal and integral right of a person to private property has grown from a selfish greed: Mine! I will not give it! grabbers are ardent owners, zealous apologists of a private property.
The grabber considers the wife (or husband) own property too. The grabber has always a marriage of convenience. grabbers like to conclude the marriage contract. For them, marriage is a deal you me, I you. When divorcing the selfish person will certainly try to bargain more junk.
Grabbers are very jealous. Jealousy generation of greed too. Mutual jealousy is called the competition. Competition arises when one is jealous of others as the object of lust. Competing with others, the jealous person strives to get ahead of everyone, before reaching the desired goal. The competitor is encouraged with a feeling of greed and lust.
No need to assume that greed, envy, greed are bad feelings. For example, A.S. Pushkin believed that Envy is a competition sister, consequently from a good kind. The poet presumable has written this phrase in 1831. (First published by P. V. Annenkov in the Collected Poems, 1855, vol. I, p. 288.)
Grabbers are called stuffy people. They say about them: from greed the toad strangles.
Grabbers eat a little, economically, if at their own expense, but at other expense eat greedily, until dumping. Their motto is: What I do not eat then I will bite
Grabbers can be good speculators and second-hand dealers. These are bright and prudent businessmen who measure everything on money and sensitively react to change of market condition. Their god is the Golden Taurus. They are corrupt and unprincipled. For the sake of profit, grabbers will easily break laws and moral standards.
Grabbers are self-serving people. Self-interest this is a vested interest. The grabber is looking for benefits in everything. He lives according to the saying: The fish seeks, where is deeper, the man where is the best. He works only if he sees a direct personal benefit for himself. Whatever he does, wherever he serves, the grabber always works only for himself. For the sake of the idea, for the sake of society, the grabber wont work. On grabber where you sit down there you go down. It is better for him to use piecework payment for labour. At the time rate, the grabber will work with the left hand: and why should he work at all if they pay for the time spent at work?
The most favourite position of grabbers in an army is a position of the supplier, quartermaster. At all times, in all countries, all peoples had quartermasters who stole supplies and rations. Not for nothing to say: To whom war, and to whom mother dear. Therefore, the order in the army always began to lead from the fact that the thieves-quartermasters were shot. Generalissimo Suvorov not for nothing said that any quartermaster, who served for two years in one place, can be hung without trial and investigation.
MISTRUST
Another feeling associated with the role of the grabber is a feeling of distrust, suspicion, doubt, scepticism.
The grabber is extremely distrustful. Like Thomas unbeliever, he will not believe until he feels it.
Thomas told them:
if I see wounds on His arms from nails,
and do not put my finger in wounds from nails,
and do not put my hand in His ribs I will not believe.
(John 20:24,25)
Mistrust creates a way to check everything. The grabber never asks the road once. At first, he will ask the road from one passerby, and then will begin to ask the same about the other.
Mistrust and suspicion generates grabbers to have such feature of the character, as caution, circumspection, the desire to keep their head down.
Greed together with distrustfulness makes grabbers to be thrifty. Especially they like to stock up with gratuitous or cheap things. They have long-term stocks, and at the real grabbers and multiten-year stocks.
Grabbers suspicion is shown in their aspiration everywhere and in everything to see someones intrigues. They sow the relations of general mistrust and suspiciousness, strive to arrange witch-hunt.
The suspicion and distrust of the grabbers can be outweighed only by their greed. The feeling of distrust and suspicion is always mixed up with a feeling of greed and jealousy; both these feelings are associated with grabbers role. The grabbers conflict of distrustfulness and greed is a source of grasping habit.
If the grabbers give money, then only for a credit, at interest, only with benefit, only for a loan or other guarantees. But on the pledge of the word they do not give for a loan. They do not beg for snow in the winter.
It is better not to lend money to grabber he will do everything not to back the money. You can completely lose contact with the selfish buddy if you give him a small amount of money for a loan he will stop meet with you under any pretexts, just not to back money.
As grabbers are tended to the theft, they the first notice other thieves a fisherman sees a fisherman afar. They suspect all in theft and laceration aspirations, because they are familiar.
The role of the suspicious grabber is a role of a watchdog who watches for a junk. And often this is the role of dog in the manger it does not eat and does not give to others.
The suspiciousness of grabbers makes them vigilant. It is almost impossible to slip past the self-guard, caretaker or auditor. But he can be bribed. It will not be cheap, but possible. grabbers motto: Serving the Fatherland, do not forget yourself!