Age to Act
Discover the second youth of life, where every day is a new page of opportunity and inspiration
Alexander Chichulin
© Alexander Chichulin, 2024
ISBN 978-5-0062-6800-5
Создано в интеллектуальной издательской системе Ridero
Prologue: «Holidays of life or life without holidays?»
Why we so often confuse Monday with a small Saturday.
Monday morning. We get out of bed, and in my head one thought: «Again work, again business, and yesterday was Sunday! What if every day was a holiday?» But wait, what if every day is actually a holiday, but we dont see it that way? Just today, at work, I heard from a colleague: «Today is my day of struggle with the printer it chewed my documents again.» You see? Even the battle with the printer can be a kind of celebration, especially if you win in the end.
Scroll through the calendar. Oh, here comes the first odd Tuesday of the month. What about making this day special? For example, the day when you finally wash those socks that are hidden in the corner of the closet. Dont forget, any business can be an adventure if you approach it with humor!
Now about the holidays. After all, what is a holiday? Its not just a birthday or New Years Day. A holiday is any day when you do something that brings you joy. Even if its just an attempt to make an omelet, which eventually turned into something between a pancake and chicken.
So, lets stop confusing Monday with little Saturday. Lets find something special in each day, something that makes it a holiday. Perhaps it will be a cup of aromatic coffee in the morning, or an evening walk when you meet the neighbors cat, which seems to behave more boldly than some people in interviews.
Remember, every day is an opportunity to do something special. And even if you cant turn every day into a holiday, its worth it. After all, as a friend of mine who always confused the days of the week used to say, «Is it Monday? Great, so Saturday is coming soon!»
The beginning is made! Are you ready to continue our journey through the pages of this amazing book?
Chapter 1: «Weekend: Moments of Freedom, or Captives fromofa?»
Anatomy of laziness: how our inner lazy person works.
The weekend is like two treasure chests that are given to us every week. And in each of us there is a small inner pirate who decides whether to look for treasure or just take a nap on the beach. Imagine: Saturday morning, your plans a whole list of adventures, from skydiving to an exhibition of modern art. But what does our inner idler do? He says, «Lets just stay on the couch and watch all the seasons of that show that weve already seen twice.»
This inner lazy person is like a pet, only instead of purring and asking for food, he whispers: «Lets save it for later.» Sometimes it feels like hes wearing pajamas and slippers 24/7, doesnt it?
But you know what? Laziness is not the enemy. Its more like a lazy friend who sometimes gives you time to rest. The problem occurs when this friend starts monitoring your schedule. After all, if everyone listened to their inner laziness, we would never know what snowboarding is, or how wonderful a morning in the park really is.
So what to do with this lazy guy? Well, first of all, you need to recognize its presence. «Hi, Len, I know youre here.» Second, dont fight it directly. Its like trying to catch smoke the harder you squeeze, the sooner it escapes. Instead, offer laziness a compromise. For example, «Okay, well watch one episode of the show and then go for a walk.» Its like a trick-taking trick for a dog, only the treat is an activity.
And dont forget, laziness is not a permanent condition. Its more of a mood that comes and goes. Like that strange relative on family holidays: sometimes its nice to see him, but if he stays for a week, its already a problem.
So, the weekend is your chance. A chance to say to Leni, «Youre not in charge today.» A chance to open that adventure chest. And remember, even if you dont become the hero of your own blockbuster movie, every little thing you do in spite of laziness is already a small victory. As my friend, who always confuses the left slipper with the right one, says: «The main thing is to move, even if you go the wrong way.»
Ideas for an active and useful pastime
These ideas can be adapted depending on your interests and preferences, as well as on the season and region of residence. The main thing is to inspireyourself to spend an active and useful timeяпрепровождения, expanding your horizons and absorbing pleasure from every moment spent.
Nature Walks and Hikes
Explore local parks, nature reserves, or trails. Nature helps you relax and refresh your thoughts.
First of all, let me share with you one small secret: nature is not just about huge national parks with bears, which, by the way, are not so happy to see tourists. No, nature is also your local park, where squirrels already know your face and may even be willing to borrow a few nuts from you.
Exploring local parks, nature reserves, or trails is a great way to escape the citys hustle and bustle. Sometimes its enough just to get out of the house and take a walk in the nearest park to feel connected to nature. Its also a great opportunity to check if your fitness trackers are still working after the latest update.
Nature really helps you relax and refresh your thoughts. In the forest, you can not only enjoy the beauty of the surrounding world, but also arrange a competition with yourself: how many species of birds or trees can you find? And if you suddenly get lost, this will be a great chance to learn how to navigate by compass or, in extreme cases, by the sun. Or, alternatively, use a mobile phone.
Remember that every walk-in nature is not only an opportunity to get some fresh air, but also a chance to make sure that your new hiking equipment was really worth the money you spent on it. And dont forget about the picnic! Just imagine: you, nature and your favorite sandwich. Just dont accidentally share it with the local animals, theyre usually not very picky about food.
So lets go on an adventure! You may even be able to take a photo where the whites dont look like blurry spots.
Organize a small picnic in nature.
Imagine: you, fresh air, greenery around and a basket of goodies. Organizing a small picnic in nature is not just a reason to change the environment, but also a great way to strengthen your health and spirit. Its also a great reason to check out if you can still light a fire without using YouTube.
Advantages of a picnic in nature:
Fresh air is the best friend of your lungs and brain. Deep breaths in nature will help you forget about what urban smog is. However, you may have to remember what real mosquitoes are. Relaxation and stress reduction-nature has a calming effect. And of course, you will have the opportunity to find out which of your friends is most suitable for the role of head chef at the picnic. Physical Activity-Getting to the perfect picnic spot can sometimes be a good workout. Plus, a walk after the picnic will help you digest all the goodies that you ate there. Time with family and friends a picnic is a great way to strengthen relationships and create unforgettable memories. Or find out which of your friends always «forgets» to take something important with them.
Disadvantages:
Preparation it can be a bit tedious. But remember that the effort is worth it! Who doesnt love a good outdoor meal? The unpredictability of the weather-but that adds to the adventure, doesnt it? The main thing is to have a plan B. Or at least a raincoat.
Now lets talk about why this should be done. A picnic in nature is not only fun and relaxing, but also a way to recharge your batteries, take a break from the daily routine and remind yourself that life is not just about work and household chores. This is the time when you can listen to the birds singing, and not the alarm clock ringing. In addition, imagine what wonderful photos for VK you will get!
In general, a picnic in nature is not only about delicious food and fresh air, but also about health, joy, connection with nature and loved ones. Its also a great way to make sure you still know how to cook something other than instant food in the microwave.
Self-education
Devote time to learning a new language or course online.
Self-education is like going on a journey without leaving your chair. And one of the most exciting stops along the way is learning a new language or taking an online course. Imagine if you can learn to speak Spanish from the comfort of your home, and then impress everyone on your next vacation by ordering paella without pointing at the menu.
Learning A New Language
Step 1: Select a language. Maybe youve always dreamed of speaking French or learning Japanese so you can watch anime without subtitles.
Step 2: Define your goals. Do you want to chat freely, or do you just have the energy to ask directions to the nearest museum?
Step 3: Find the appropriate resources. Mobile apps, online courses, language clubs, or just movies and books in this language. And dont forget to practice-speak, even if it still sounds like incantations from a Sumerian preacher.
Online Courses
Step 1: Select your area of interest. It can be anything from culinary arts to programming.
Step 2: Find a suitable course. There are a lot of platforms with free and paid courses for every taste. And if you finish the cooking course, you can go straight to the fitness course so to speak, kill two birds with one stone.
Step 3: Create a schedule. Determine how much time you are willing to devote to training, and stick to this schedule. Even if it means learning without being distracted by new episodes of your favorite TV show.
Remember, self-education is not only a path to new knowledge and skills, but also a great way to keep the mind in good shape. Who knows, maybe your new knowledge will help you win a quiz one day, or at least make your next trip to a restaurant more fun.
Visit museums, exhibitions, readings, or lectures.
Imaginethis: the world of art and knowledge opens up before you, and all you have to do is just get out of the house. Visiting museums, exhibitions, literary readings or lectures is not just a way to spend time, it is a journey into the world of new ideas and inspiration. And most importantly, this is a great opportunity to put on that stylish but impractical coat that you bought at the sale. Or, a dress that you have, but it does not fit anywhere-a museum, for a walk!
Visiting Museums and Exhibitions. This is your chance to see real masterpieces of art and history. Who knows, you might be able to figure out what the artist meant by drawing this er a unique piece of art. And if not you can always come up with your own version. Museums and exhibitions are not only about paintings and sculptures, but also about history, science, and technology. You can learn about distant cultures, see dinosaurs (or at least their skeletons), and even understand how your smartphone works.
Literary Readings and Lectures. Literary readings are an opportunity to hear words as they were conceived by the author. And even if you dont understand anything you read, you can always nod your head and pretend that it has deeply affected you. Lectures can be on any topic, from quantum physics to the history of fashion. This is your chance to expand your horizons and learn something new. Or at least get a topic for the next conversation in the company of friends.
Attending these events not only enriches your inner world, but also gives you the opportunity to meet like-minded people. Its also a great way to make a cultural post on social media. So dont miss the opportunity to immerse yourself in the world of art and knowledge, and, of course, show it off to your friends!
Sports Activities
Join a group yoga, dance, or fitness class.
Here you are standing at the door of the gym, ready to join a group class. The choice is yours: yoga, dance or fitness. Each activity isnt just a workout, its a fun way to shake things up, meet new friends, and maybe learn to do something that previously seemed impossible. Who knows, maybe youll discover your talent as a dancer. Or at least learn not to trip over your yoga mat.
Yoga is not only physical exercises, it is a practice that helps to achieve harmony of body and mind. And, of course, this is a great way to learn how to touch your nose to your knees (or at least try to do it). Join group classes to feel supported and motivated by others. And if you manage to perform the «dog face down» asana without losing your balance, consider that the day was not in vain.
Dancing and Dance classes are all about fun, energy, and great cardio. Plus, its a chance to learn how to dance so that at the next party you dont look like a robot trying to learn human movements. You can choose anything from Latin to modern dance. The main thing is not to be afraid to experiment. And remember, even if your movements are still more like spasms, youre still doing great for trying!
Fitness: Whether you want to tighten up your body, improve your fitness, or just проsweat well, fitness classes are your choice. And dont worry if you cant do all the exercises at once everyone started small. Except for those who were born with dumbbells in their hands, of course. Group classes create an atmosphere of mutual support and friendly competition. And remember, the main thing is not the number of repetitions, but your perseverance and desire to become better.
So go ahead, join a group class, and let each exercise or dance move bring you closer to a new level of health, happiness, and fulfillment. And, of course, let it be fun! Because if you cant do it with a smile, then maybe youre doing it wrong.
Try a new sport, such as rock climbing or kayaking.
Imagine that you are going to try something completely new and exciting, something that will make your heart beat faster with delight and a little with fear. Yes, Im talking about trying out a new sport, like rock climbing or kayaking. This is not only a great physical activity, but also an incredible adventure that you will never forget. Well, or at least, it will leave you with a lot of impressions and, perhaps, a couple of bruises.
Rock climbing: This is a unique way to test your strength, agility and endurance. Plus, you can feel like a real action movie hero, only without all that stress and suspense with exploding cars. Rock climbing teaches you to find the right paths, fight your inner fears and, of course, enjoy the stunning views from the top. But do not forget about safety: it is best to start with classes in a specialized gym under the supervision of an instructor.
Kayaking: Imagine: you, a kayak, and open waters. This is a great opportunity to get a closer look at nature, get a boost of adrenaline and pump up the muscles of the upper body. And dont worry if you roll over it will only add drama to the story of your adventure. Kayaking also helps develop coordination and balance, and provides a unique opportunity to explore water trails. And remember, if you meet a beaver or duck on your way, greet them they are locals.
Remember, trying a new sport is not only a way to strengthen your body, but also an opportunity to discover new facets of your personality. And who knows, maybe youll discover a passion for climbing or a love of boat trips. If not well, at least you can say, «I tried this!» and proudly show the photo in a kayak or on a rock.
Creative Projects
Work on personal creative projects, such as drawing, knitting, and modeling.